You need to see things as they are!

My loves I know how hard it is when you want things to be different, it’s hard to accept things as they are sometimes
You hoped & wished things were different. You saw glimpses of what could have been a great relationship but you also saw the red flags over & over
I know for me and my life it was realizing exactly this. My sad heart my disappointment was in me expecting him to be WHO I NEEDED ! I couldn’t accept who he was, I hanged on to an idea ! When I realized he was NEVER going to change, this is who he is I knew.! I knew that i was torturing myself & I knew I had to accept he was never going to be what I really wanted !

Have you had this or a similar experience?

Are you hoping a certain someone will be how you hope? And what if they never can?

Please share ❤️