Chemistry is often a sign of familiar unconscious toxic patterns connecting between 2 people

Sure chemistry can be a good thing if we have a history of healthy relationships but so often chemistry ( especially without a sound emotional connection) is actually our internalized trauma conditioning aligning to another’s.

When we keep attracting the same type of people that then elicit the same emotions within us such as fear, insecurity, anxiety, depression, sadness ( even though chemistry is great ) what is really happening is your inner child is needing your attention & screaming out to be seen and heard !

In these scenarios you end up attaching fast & becoming clingy needy & desperately trying to get their approval or love because of your inner child needing to feel safe

It’s why the adult” you “can say what am I doing ?

Here’s what to do
Notice this pattern, become self aware of your relationships , the emotional states you tend to feel..,
Are you living in anger, worry,
I’s your mood dependent on how the other person treats you?
Start a conversation with your inner child, ask her/ him what they need
Take small steps each day by becoming more present and recognizing your need to be attached
AND DONT LET CHEMISTRY BLIND YOU
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This is how you begin to heal & dismantle old conditioning just keeps you in your wounded inner child

I teach this in my 1.1 program
Healing your inner child is one of the most powerful ways in transforming your relationships

Tell me with a ❤️if this resonates

Nothing feels better than being with someone who is gentle with you, who is easy with you

I have experienced toxic
I have also experienced healthy love

One thing that stands out is how easy it feels when you are treated well

Having a partner willing to hold space for you
Who supports you and makes things better in your life not worse

I don’t miss the fights the overreactions the uncertainty toxic brings ~ it never felt safe

Sharing my feelings always ended in an argument. That right there is wrong!

I get it now, I know what I deserve, I know what I want 😍

Tell me what you most need in a relationship in the comments below!

You matter … a lot ! Take that in my dear ❤️

The way you feel right now in this moment, the way you feel as you fall to sleep & awaken

Your fears, your dreams, your worries, your happiness
It all matters

I want you to be your own best friend
I want you to look in the mirror and tell that person, I love you

Be gentle on you
Be strong for you
Be kind too you

I see you❤️

Sally

PS for those asking ~ I take people on an inward journey of radical healing so that they can know them self deeply & create a life they love on their terms!
Reach out if you want to have a life changing experience

The sad truth is the people that we fight to hold on to or the ones we chase are not the best for us.

They usually represent our past, meaning energetically that persons behavior towards you triggers past memories in which you were not seen heard or validated?

It may have been reoccurring or occasional but it impacted you and you formed a belief. Now as the adult you, you unconsciously attract men to your life that elicit the exact same emotions in you as a kid so you then cling and even beg as you have created a blue print match to that early memory, you want that person to see you, acknowledge you like how you wished when you were. Kid ( this is your inner child)

So what can you do
🌹you become aware of this pattern and ask who is this person I am hanging onto reminding me of, usually a father or a mother figure and then tell them how you feel ~ say it out loud
🌹then place your hand over your heart & tell your younger self I love you, you are safe
🌹recognize that this person you are chasing is a catalyst for you to heal, make this about you and healing rather than getting that person to do what you think you need ~ the healing is within you to do

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I see you
Sally ❤️

Hello my loves, how much time have you spent trying to figure out if they are interested or not ?

When they are you know it 💯

There is no second-guessing, no wondering, no anything other than their actions speak

Hoping someone sees you means you are looking at the wrong person, so go where the love is

If you are trying to figure out those mixed messages
It’s a no!
Don’t waste another day. Instead, invest in people who want to invest in you.